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Westlife World Column

Sunday World Newspaper January 7th 2001

KERRY AND ME
Why we kept silent on our engagement


Hi Bryan here,

THIS has been a big week in my life - it's the week that I finally decided to set the record straight about my relationship with Kerry.

Not that I was hiding anything, as all the fans were aware that Kerry is my girlfriend. But I hadn't come out and said that we've been actually engaged for a whole year.

We both felt that the time is now right to tell everyone and all we can hope is that people will be happy for us.

As those of you who are lucky enough to have found love will probably agree, you just want to shout it from the rooftops.

It's not that easy in our case as our management and record companies didn't want us to tell the world about our love.

It shouldn't make a difference to the fans because I know that all you want for all us in Westlife is to be happy. And if that means falling in love with someone, well, I know no one will think any less of us.

Special and romantic

When I decided to propose to Kerry I wanted it to be really special and romantic. So I took her to Donegal and asked her to marry me at the same spot where my grandad asked my nana to be his bride.

Of course, I did the traditional bit beforehand by asking Kerry's mum for her permission to marry her beautiful daughter. Luckily, she said yes.

Nine months later, I proposed all over again - just to make sure that Kerry realised I really did mean it. I gave her a white-gold engagement ring with a criss-cross and a diamond in the middle.

Because I'm going to be really busy with Westlife this year, we have decided not to wed until next year. I just didn't want us to get married and then have to go back to work the next day. We both wanted it to be really special.

Although Kerry is from England, we are going to live in Ireland where we're now in the middle of buying our dream home. Kerry loves it here just as much as I do, so I'm really lucky in that respect. In fact, life couldn't get much better for me right now.

Kerry has spent Christmas with me, and I took her along to Cinderella at the Olympia on Monday. I thought she was going to die laughing at Dustin. It's a really fun show and it brought me right back to my days in the Billie Barry school. Great memories.

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I WATCH all the shows that you are on and what you always say is how you want to make people happy. Well, I just want to say that you make me very happy. Thank you, Westlife.
Lisa Smyth, Rathmolyon, Co Meath.

OH MY babes you're doing so well/You make my heart throb like hell/Someday I'll see you, I'll make it real soonlMaybe you'll sing me one of your tunes/Everyone of ye, looking so sexy, looking so fine/But Shane, honey, will you be mine?/You and me, I know it's a dream/Or perhaps things are never what they seem?
Bnanán Faughey, Dundalk, Co Louth.

BRYAN you are a babe and the rest of ya too. I can't wait for your concerts at the Point.
Mary Kiely, Clanna, Co Limerick.

BRYAN, thank you for your autograph. Your auntie gave it to me. The poster is on my bedroom door. Will you come up to Cork and see me sometime. I have never been to a Westlife concert.
Maureen O'Neill, Glasheen, Co Cork.

MARK you're my favourite. If you read this, you're just too cute. I saw you in Tralee and it was one hell of a concert. I hope you enjoyed Kerry. Next time you're down call in for a cup of tea.
Sharon Murphy, Listowel, Co Kerry.

WESTLIFE, I love you so much. I read about ye every night. I have your album, Coast To Coast, and I can't wait to see you in March.
Rachel O'Connor, Trim, Co Meath.